Bringing home a new baby can be so exciting for everyone…..right?? WRONG! Most older siblings are so intrigued with their new little brother or sister and want to help (especially the girls!). Then there are those kids that do not want anything to do with that tiny little screaming human you just brought into “their” home! They are the ones that keep asking, “When are they leaving?”
Of course, you want to start off by having a gift from the new baby to let them know how much baby loves them! That’s always a big hit!
We obviously don’t want them to resent their new little sibling so make them feel like the special big brother or sister and that their new baby really needs them!
Remember, they just went from having mom & dad’s attention at ALL times to limited times or part time! SO my advice to parents would be to always include them in the care of the baby, like let them bring you a diaper or wipes, let them help burp the baby, or even hold the bottle.
Also remember to try and set aside mommy & me time, daddy & me time, as well as, mommy & daddy & me time! Have someone take care of the baby and go out to your child’s favorite place for some special one-on-one time.
Lastly, check out some books at your local library on new baby & older siblings to share with them.
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